Creating Healthy Role Models for Young Children

Subconsciously we’re all influenced by the things we see every day. Whether those things are positive or negative, the message or interactions of what we’re exposed to are ingested and manifested in different ways. Just as adults become affected by the images and ideals put forth in the media, the same is holds true for children.

Children are extremely observant and pay attention to everything that goes on around them. As a mom, I try to control my daughter’s environment and exposure to negative influences as much as I possibly can. Kids can often be found quoting characters from their favorite movies or TV shows or singing theme songs. These characters through appearance, actions, dialogue, and songs shape the ideas that kids begin to have about the world around them.

That’s not to say, I don’t allow my daughter to watch TV or movies but I limit the amount of time spent watching and the types of programs. Of all the programs out there, my favorite for providing educational content through positive lessons and songs is Yo Gabba Gabba! The characters are all different and through their quirks, valuable teaching opportunities for life lessons are shown. Each episode revolves around a different issue that children deal with each day and through the use of songs the issue is resolved. Themes such as sharing, brushing your teeth, trying new things, and embracing the differences in others are just some of the positive lessons that young children are presented with. Presenting these lessons in a colorful, fun manner appeals to kids while the catchy songs help reinforce the lessons.

While the impact of the media acts as a role model for children, the influence of family and friends should not be underestimated. First and foremost, I want to provide my child with a healthy, positive view of herself and being a person that she can look up to and respect is an important component of this. Everything and I do and say is being processed by my daughter. She often repeats the things I say and mimics my actions. I always strive to do my best in providing her with the image of the person I want her to see and model herself after. Being a mother has caused me to be a better person through becoming a healthy role model for my daughter.

What role models do your children have? What are some additional ways to create healthy role models for your children?